Why Other Black Women are Becoming More Vocally Against Us 'Swirlers' I guess as the head-girl advocating black women expanding their dating options makes me Public Enemy Number One. This has been historically predictable from territorial men, but the vitriol is ramping...

Robert De Niro Splits from Grace Hightower. Why It Doesn't Matter. Last week’s news cycle comprised of the very sad news that Robert De Niro split from his wife of 20 years, Grace Hightower. Critics of interracial marriage in the bowels of the black sector of YouT...

Are Black Women More "Submissive" to White Men? There’s a lot of salty complaints from men of our culture who say that black women magically become more feminine when they are paired with white men. When a non-black man enters the picture, black ...

Korean Men Dish On What They Think of Black Women In this video, Korean men dish their opinions about black women and reveal their attraction and admiration of them.

How Middle-Aged Black Women Can WIN at Interracial Dating Dating at mid-life doesn’t have to completely suck, especially if you are aware of which market you should be shopping and have a grasp of the competition. Being a middle-aged black woman in the int...

Interview: Interracial Marriage as a Baby Boomer Black female baby boomers grew up in a time where race relations in America were tense. Many black women of this generation are very hesitant to date interracially or marry interracially. I intervie...

Do Today's Men REALLY Just Want to Be Women? As a woman in her mid-forties, I have been looking on with increasing horror the societal moves towards blurring gender lines to the point of complete neutrality, or worse; guiding men to lean towards...

Does More IR Marriages In China Mean More AM/BW Matches Stateside? Earlier this month, Al Jeezera reported a rise in interracial marriage between African women and Chinese men. The increase in intermarriage is a byproduct of the Chinese doing more commerce in African...

(Almost) 20 Reasons Some Black Women Should NEVER Date Interracially Are you on the fence about interracial relationships. If you do anything remotely similar, hop back off the fence in the direction you came. Read on...

Black Woman Sued for Mocking White Woman's Interracial Relationship When are we going to realize that other ecosystems do act like everything is a tiff at the backyard barbeque? The New York Daily News recently reported that a black woman making fun of a white woman i...

When He Says "I Need Time" You Say This... Today, I'm going to reveal an exclusive video clip on how to deal with a man who keeps swinging you left and right.

Boost Your Emotional Intelligence Cultivating empathy is crucial in developing solid relationships in our personal and professional lives. But what exactly is it? How is it different from sympathy? While empathy is often gets mixed u...

5 Texting Signs He's Not Actually Interested Your phone buzzes. He’s texted you back. Great, right? Right?? Well, it depends. I’ve seen too many women fall into the trap of thinking that a guy is chasing simply because he sends a few What...

Stop Aiming Below Your Dating League In this short show of the podcast we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! Below are the things covered: If the pervasive drunken collegiate environment isn’t...

He WANTS You To Do This In The Bedroom (Trust Me)... Many women make the mistake of thinking men are really simple when it comes to the bedroom. But actually, there’s a huge difference between “normal sex” and what truly blows his mind. I know wha...

The #1 Most Terrifying Dating Question + Your Perfect Response Today, I want to give you an exact response that will save you hours of annoying jealous conversations with any guy... Watch the video.

The Simple TRUTH: Why You're Not Attracted To More Men {Watch} Do you feel like no guy is quite what you’re looking for? Do you feel no guy you meet is relationship-worthy? This is how to solve it...

Living with Drama {AUDIO} In this episode, AJ and Johnny ask Christopher “Drama” Pfaff about his methods for overcoming social anxiety and how to reset people’s first impressions and how to take advantage of opportunitie...

How Small Standards Transform Your Relationship {VIDEO} Are you happy in a relationship or not? Well, I am not here to get you into one. All I care about is that you are the happiest human being. In this video, I am talking to various women about men. An...

New 'Bewitched' Reboot Has an Interracial Component and... I HATE It Coming from ‘the girl who swirls,’ and the co-author of Swirling: How to Date, Match & Relate, Mixing Race, Culture, and Creed, you would think any media representations of interracial couples...