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How To Get Off The Bench

Posted by Leticia, 27 Dec 10

 

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  1.   puregolduc says:
    Posted: 1 day ago

    Ask for don't wait for someone to ask you

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  2.   puregolduc says:
    Posted: 1 day ago

    No time work for it

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  3.   Queenet82 says:
    Posted: 3 days ago

    I desire to meet a loving, caring truthful man with the fear of God here that can love me whole heartedly and we live happily ever. Preferably a white man but most importantly, a man we both have chemistry

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  4.   Diatrustu says:
    Posted: 4 days ago

    You are funny

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  5.   Charlezman says:
    Posted: 21 Aug

    It's interracial ......... So am here to get a lady of different race I will welcome her if she gets interested in me

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  6.   TVMN says:
    Posted: 10 Aug

    Could relate to her story hope mine ends well too!

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  7.   Sadayo says:
    Posted: 23 Jul

    Surely in ma Life I need a white girlfriend I could love her beyond the even if she's btn 50-20 of age am more than ready 4 her.

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  8.   ramofi says:
    Posted: 28 Jun

    hello! I need lovely , caring girlfriend

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  9.   Oldbabe says:
    Posted: 20 Jun

    I am here to find a mature man aged 45-65 for friendship, love and Marriage.

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  10.   Gratoes says:
    Posted: 05 Jun

    My only problem is I'm afraid to date a man who is younger than me

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    • panae says:
      Posted: 19 Jun

      No no no! Don't be scared by that. At least get scared by living without someone who you must string attached to. Age mean nothing when it comes to love. Listen to your heart and get rid of the fear of unkown.

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    • Mwapangasha says:
      Posted: 15 Jul

      Don't be afraid age are just numbers and they have nothing to do in relationship

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  11.   Bagaree says:
    Posted: 03 Jun

    I hope to find good woman here

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  12.   DEPLOX says:
    Posted: 15 May

    I have admired your profile pliz....and especially the Canadian you're welcome dear

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  13.   briiiii82 says:
    Posted: 14 May

    she could not trust me and it made me hard to love again,i know yu are out there come and redeem my faith nd love

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    • Stina200 says:
      Posted: 08 Sep

      You are the one to make the boat sail again. You hold the power to make it happen again.

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  14.   Basigar says:
    Posted: 22 Apr

    I am writing for you.... please come in my life

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  15.   Fabian15 says:
    Posted: 20 Apr

    I wish i will get a nice girlfriend

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  16.   Tessydee says:
    Posted: 20 Apr

    I need a caring, God fearing man that will be my friend and lover...long term relationship please

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  17.   olu76 says:
    Posted: 02 Apr

    Hi

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  18.   Carolove123 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar

    I hope to find a God fearing gentleman. 46_59 years.

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  19.   Immay says:
    Posted: 23 Mar

    I will wait for my God fearing man

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  20.   Tayakay says:
    Posted: 20 Mar

    I will wait for you my king

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  21.   2i2i says:
    Posted: 12 Mar

    I need my soulmate God fear

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  22.   P540 says:
    Posted: 26 Feb

    I think it is about time that i get off the bench

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  23.   Planboy says:
    Posted: 22 Feb

    Ineed a girlfriend

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  24.   HAERDSOME says:
    Posted: 16 Feb

    cool

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  25.   divanita36 says:
    Posted: 28 Dec 18

    I think it's about time I got off the bench. I want a serious relationship that could lead to marriage

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  26.   Aporas says:
    Posted: 19 Nov 18

    I need a hot girl

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  27.   Richyblack says:
    Posted: 14 Nov 18

    Please if there's any good looking and God fearing woman of about 21 to 25yrs of age around sapele should please let me know thanks.

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  28.   ellashiva says:
    Posted: 08 Nov 18

    Hi I wanna meet my soulmate who's probably ready to settle down and not more than 35yrs.

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  29.   emprendedor says:
    Posted: 18 Oct 18

    I’m a real gentleman waiting for you

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  30.   emprendedor says:
    Posted: 18 Oct 18

    I would like to meet a wonderful woman.

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  31.   natniyen says:
    Posted: 02 Oct 18

    I need a loving and caring man to share my life with

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  32.   Ksmsra says:
    Posted: 01 Oct 18

    I rich woman relationship that will help me with day to days activities

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  33.   pattykevin says:
    Posted: 29 Sep 18

    True love exists but trust is hard to get

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  34.   Sajadmalik says:
    Posted: 28 Sep 18

    Hi

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    • Argin says:
      Posted: 17 Oct 18

      Hello I'm Camila from cebu ,nice to meet u here ...hoping I can here u again

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  35.   Eny4kay says:
    Posted: 28 Sep 18

    get to know your partner before you fall in love

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  36.   Towers2016 says:
    Posted: 26 Sep 18

    A Kenyan aged 30 Looking for my companion above 35mature, God fearing and ready to settle down. A real man ready to be loved n love in return preferably in Dubai

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  37.   Towers2016 says:
    Posted: 26 Sep 18

    I don’t believe true love exists!

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  38.   Ntusi says:
    Posted: 26 Sep 18

    I need my soulmate around Durban

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  39.   rainbow2000 says:
    Posted: 20 Sep 18

    What is this

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  40.   FunkyFunkid says:
    Posted: 31 Aug 18

    Wooooooooow how can I stay on a bench i just wanna be inside some one's heart any real trustworthy woman out here on Afro?

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  41.   Noila says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 18

    I need my soulmate God fearing and understanding.

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  42.   nawen says:
    Posted: 15 Aug 18

    Wooooooooow how can I stay on a bench i just wanna be insidesome one's heart any real trustworthy man out here on Afro?.

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    • okwany says:
      Posted: 26 Aug 18

      Wow! Nawen thats` great then, i think your are the best lover in the world dear. Please can we link up swry`

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  43.   ActionAJ says:
    Posted: 14 Aug 18

    I'm looking for the special female whom I can admire, conversate,explore, challenge and most of important love.

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  44.   Enna78 says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 18

    I need a God-fearing man who will truly love me.

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  45.   Skylark101 says:
    Posted: 30 Jul 18

    Am here to hookup with real a real Lady for dating, hope I'll find one...

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  46.   sukarno says:
    Posted: 26 Jul 18

    I just want to start a fresh a relationship with a honest, humble, caring fun loving woman.

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  47.   Muwang says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 18

    i jst want asingle lady ok

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  48.   Hafeezo says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 18

    Am looking for women to start first steps of relationship and build nice family together ihope to find responsible woman respect me and respect here

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  49.   Hirlive says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 18

    I m same carrying women & only sex realtion ship eny intrested women like my city & my town so pls

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  50.   L.v.e says:
    Posted: 08 Jul 18

    Hi friends...

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