You Don't Have to Be Einstein to Understand This Connection

Posted by Leticia, 30 Aug 12

“Online dating does work, and I’m living proof of that,” says Nandi, who used our site to meet a man she’s mad for. “For some people, it doesn’t take long to find that certain someone. For others, it takes quite awhile. The main thing is, don’t ever give up. The longer it takes, the more rewarding it’ll be when you find that special person.”

Dustin, Nandi’s new beau, advises singles to “keep your head up and keep looking. Just because you don’t find someone right away doesn’t mean you won’t! Your perfect person is out there.”

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Nandi joined our site with the sense that this could be big for her. She explains... “I was more confident than most because some of my family members have found their loved ones on dating sites.”

A newcomer to the online personals scene, Nandi was excited by the possibilities as she explored our site. “It was my first experience! I thought it would be fun. Plus, it’s easier to narrow down what you’re looking for.”

Dustin, however, was wrestling with significant doubts about dating online. “I was not confident,” he admits. “I was losing hope. I wanted to try online dating because there were no good women in my area I would want to date. I figured online dating was my best option.”

Unfortunately, Dustin’s initial forays into the online dating pool were unsuccessful. “I had used several sites before, with no luck.” Still, something convinced him to roll the dice on us. “I was giving online sites one last try before cutting my losses,” he says of his decision to sign up.

Nandi and Dustin joined at about the same time. It was only a couple of weeks before their paths crossed. Nandi wrote in her profile that she was interested in quantum astronomy and quantum physics. So “Dustin86” sent “Seaflower912” (Nandi) an email complimenting her on her intelligence. He didn’t expect to receive anything in return. But Nandi wrote back. “We began talking every day,” she says.

Sometimes people seem great on the surface, but the more you get to know them, the more you know there’s no match to be made. In Dustin’s case, Nandi passed each successive test with flying colors. “My first impression of her when I saw her profile was ‘Wow! She’s smart, and pretty!’ That impression solidified and I knew I was hooked. This girl was everything I was looking for: intelligent, sweet, charming, beautiful. The whole package.”

After close to two months of emailing and calling one another every day, Dustin and Nandi were ready to road test this relationship in the making. “I thought I knew as much about her as I possibly could without meeting in person,” says Dustin. So he decided to take this courtship to the next level.

For their first date, they went bowling and had dinner afterwards. Nandi shares her impressions. “My first thought was how tall he was, which I loved, and how handsome and well dressed. He was a gentleman. He was also very independent and mature for his age.”

Dustin was intoxicated by Nandi’s feminine grace. “My first thought was how pretty she was, and how much I liked her hair,” he says. “But I was surprised she was so quiet, when we had talked about so much on the phone and over email.”

Nandi may have been a bit shy in their first meeting, but Dustin’s gregarious personality filled the silences. “I was surprised at how outspoken and lively he was, although I shouldn’t have been because he’d seemed that way over the phone.”

As the end of the date drew near, neither party wanted to walk away. “We both had a wonderful evening and wanted to see each other again,” says Nandi. “The fact that I didn’t want to part ways after our first date was a reassurance for me.” Dustin was thoroughly convinced, as well. “I knew I wanted to go out again!”

Their relationship progressed steadily from there. Nandi came to find that the guy in her life was even more impressive than advertised. “Many things didn’t come across in his profile that I know now and really appreciate. He’s extremely caring and protective. He’s also very driven, which is good motivation for me!”

Dustin didn’t corner the market on ambition, though. “I really like how passionate Nandi is,” he says. “In everything she does, she tries to accomplish it to the best of her ability. Whether it’s writing a new song, or cooking a meal….”

We usually ask couples if their partner is exactly the person they always hoped to find, or a surprise match. Of Dustin, Nandi says “his personality was different than my ‘type,’ but better than what I’d hoped for. But we are very similar when it comes to intelligence, creativity, and physical activity.”

Dustin didn’t have a type in the traditional sense, but he did set priorities before embarking on his search for love. “I had actually written up a list of all the attributes I was looking for in a partner. Nandi has every attribute!”

Nandi is still blissed out by her good fortune. “I never really thought having someone in my life could make me want to experience more, or even make me happier. But I’m happier now than ever, and it’s a great feeling.”

Dustin and Nandi are helping each other to grow and mature. Their mutual and individual goals seem much more attainable with a supportive partner in their corner. Dustin is well aware of the impact his sweetheart has made on his life. “Since I met Nandi, I am a lot happier and more motivated to push myself. I want to succeed and accomplish a lot, not only for myself but to make her proud.”

For singles seeking the advice of someone who made our site work for them, Nandi has this to say. “You have to know exactly what you want when you begin. You can’t accept every Flirt or message you get from people, because it’s a waste of your time and theirs if you know they’re not what you’re looking for. Use that time searching for the one you want!”

Dustin has also thought about suggestions to share with our membership. “There are a lot of people who you may think you could like but, without definite guidelines, you can get lost in all the profiles. Don’t settle for someone you will not be truly happy with.”

426 responses to "You Don't Have to Be Einstein to Understand This Connection"

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  1.   Etaiwo says:
    Posted: 12 Sep

    Wow, amazing

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  2.   Etaiwo says:
    Posted: 12 Sep

    Wow, amazing

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  3.   LilyUg says:
    Posted: 06 Sep

    Wow I love this, I am a few days old in the site but I already feel positive about meeting the right person

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  4.   Gabbyam says:
    Posted: 20 Aug

    I really love this group so much

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  5.   Doreen1990 says:
    Posted: 16 Aug

    Amazing

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  6.   TVMN says:
    Posted: 08 Aug

    Amazing story. All the best for you

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  7.   Telflon says:
    Posted: 10 Jul

    Congrats to you for finding happness and love.

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  8.   Josmwash says:
    Posted: 24 Jun

    This amazing ....Success to them praying to myself too that one day I will come to testify too

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  9. Posted: 17 Jun

    This has been encouraging. I hope to one day have a beautiful story like this one.

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  10.   Deemigan says:
    Posted: 04 Jun

    Wow this is so encouraging, congratulations...I know my turn is coming am supper positive about it

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  11.   Midai says:
    Posted: 01 Jun

    Wow wish could find the love of my life here too

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  12. Posted: 27 May

    Nice connections but im complicated i guess thats not going to happen to me

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    • Stina200 says:
      Posted: 27 Aug

      Do not be your own critic, speak positivity and it will be exactly that.

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  13. Posted: 27 May

    Nice connections but im complicated i giess thats not go i ng to happen to me

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  14.   Clementtol says:
    Posted: 06 May

    I am glad with the testimonies and I believe that one day i will give my own.

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  15.   babawale27 says:
    Posted: 28 Apr

    Well,all d testimony was awesome,I no I will share mine soon

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  16.   Salarah says:
    Posted: 07 Apr

    Ohhh,,that's good,,hope to meet mine soon

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  17.   Naingondo says:
    Posted: 12 Mar

    I hope I can get someone who really love me , and I am positive that it will happen .I won't give up .

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  18. Posted: 22 Feb

    Nonsense i can't get what i want

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  19.   Ginny001 says:
    Posted: 14 Feb

    Awww nice one. I will like to have my own testimony too

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  20.   Jkuk says:
    Posted: 06 Feb

    The thing most women are looking for the opposite which is financial benefits instead of the really thing which is love

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  21.   My1be says:
    Posted: 06 Feb

    Thanks am encouraged with the story and also happy, I wish then all the very best, and I pray never to give up in my search hoping to to find my partner. With no time thanks nandi

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  22.   castra says:
    Posted: 06 Feb

    Nice one

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  23.   Nsta says:
    Posted: 19 Jan

    Wow congratulation

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  24.   Opiun says:
    Posted: 18 Jan

    Wow I love this testimony it's really mind blowing & sooo encouraging, to all whom this site has blessed may your happiness know no bounds, more happiness, wealth & health cheers. Well for me not given up yet, have heard so many good stories about this platform, so want to use this medium today to say a big thank you to you afro introduction/Romance teams to keep up the good work and may the almighty creator keep you all Amein.

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  25.   Laisbeutin says:
    Posted: 17 Jan

    Ooh my God this so touching. I hope i will find mine as well. M jus praying am kind tired of heart broken. God give me one who will love me unconditional

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  26.   Lovingpart says:
    Posted: 16 Jan

    I would like to find someone,anyone from singapore in singapore. I believe,beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. So anyone out there wants to get to know me

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  27.   Catra says:
    Posted: 12 Jan

    Wow,this is amazing.am encouraged, I believe I will meet mine as well at the appoited time.God bless them more

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  28.   ririlachi says:
    Posted: 10 Jan

    I think love is out there but have never had real love in my life am happy for those who found love

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  29.   Nick2s says:
    Posted: 06 Jan

    Its really so amazing to see those guys smiling with there perfect matches

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  30. Posted: 30 Dec 18

    Very inspiring am very excited for the couple ,such a story encourages others to know that everything has a time.And God time is the best, but also says that help yourself and I help you. This is what Dustin and Nadine did.They help themselves they don't gave up and fortunately received God help through this excellent site the interracial. Thanks to the excellent team.

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  31.   Mitchym says:
    Posted: 26 Dec 18

    Congra

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  32.   Romitt says:
    Posted: 26 Nov 18

    Congrats

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  33.   Duran. says:
    Posted: 25 Nov 18

    Someday..

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  34.   sheena1234 says:
    Posted: 17 Nov 18

    ωσω тнαикѕ ѕσ мυ¢н fσя тнє υρ∂αтє ι нσρє ι fιи∂ мιиє ѕσσи

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  35.   Amalka says:
    Posted: 15 Nov 18

    Wooow Thanks so much for this.I was about to give up because they just visiting my profile and send flirt while they not interested in me.Let me hope I'm going to meet my Mr Right here

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  36.   Uchm says:
    Posted: 11 Nov 18

    Good one here.

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  37.   Heartsy says:
    Posted: 11 Nov 18

    Thank you this is very encouraging

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  38.   Rudelph says:
    Posted: 16 Oct 18

    Hi

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  39.   missyel says:
    Posted: 07 Oct 18

    That's true some people just send flirts when they are not even interested, at least I know I will keep on trying

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  40.   Tokpor says:
    Posted: 05 Oct 18

    The point is that we have to wait for the appointed time.Any thing you believe in, Handel it the professional way We man always play a major role in our day to day relationship moreover our soulmate who we consider our wife is the major source of our love. when they say to day my man I want to quit the relationship believe me or not that relationship will not hold you see that. In most cases woman are the beginning and the end of our relationship. So I wait to see my beginner see you have a lucky days.

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  41.   Fatimagul says:
    Posted: 20 Aug 18

    Yes it true some men they don't know what they want and they are not serious they are playing with other people feelings

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  42.   Queen1237 says:
    Posted: 16 Aug 18

    Yes

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  43.   mosi12 says:
    Posted: 19 Jul 18

    yes true many girls or boys using wrong this site

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  44.   Nevro says:
    Posted: 24 Jun 18

    True to ones self

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  45.   luhyababe says:
    Posted: 06 Jun 18

    Wow I'm encouraged, after paying for the VIP subscription days ago I've been so discouraged with the numerous fake profiles but now I'm very much encouraged I hope to find my soulmate ☺

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  46.   Rahopp says:
    Posted: 03 Jun 18

    Very inspiring story.May their union be blessed and I am looking forward to my union to a brighter happiness with God's Blessings and my life partner.

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  47.   BUCTH says:
    Posted: 30 May 18

    YOU DO NOT HAVE MEMPHIS TENN ON YOUR PLACE OF CITIES

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  48.   atuoma says:
    Posted: 29 May 18

    Good.

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  49.   Ladysarp says:
    Posted: 27 May 18

    Am amazed with the results of being on this site, hope I meet mine very soon

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  50.   swtself says:
    Posted: 15 May 18

    Thats intresting

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