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The government can't keep them apart

Posted by Leticia, 13 Apr 11

Jeff never had trouble meeting people, given his gregarious nature and his line of work—he’s a snowboard instructor, drummer, and D.J. whose handle is “DJake.”  But he’d found he was most compatible with black women and he wasn’t meeting many of them in his area.  What’s more, Jeff was very eager to meet his match and knew that hoping for the occasional chance meeting might keep him waiting for a long time.

“I wanted someone to fill my lonely heart, and yesterday,” Jeff says.  So he decided to try our site.  “Within the first month, I was talking to so many ladies that I quit searching to meet new ones,” he marvels.  “Several of them are now some of my best friends.  I’ve been teaching one of the girls’ daughters how to do magic tricks!”

Kalama was getting plenty of attention of her own, but she had specific ideas about the kind of man she was looking for.  When she found Jeff’s profile, it struck her as a bit long, but fun and genuine.  She liked that Jeff knew what he wanted.  His profile declared he was “Ready for Love.”  Their personalities seemed compatible, and so did their relationship goals—both wanted to start a family, sooner rather than later.

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There was just one wrinkle to iron out—Jeff was in Ohio and Kalama was in Africa!  Undeterred, they started talking on Skype.  This was enough for Jeff to learn to love Kalama’s laugh, her beautiful smile, and her witty sense of humor.

Jeff decided to go to Africa for a visit to see if their connection would work in real life.  The pair met in person for the first time when Jeff got off the plane in Zambia.  “When I finally met her, she was the same person as on Skype, but so beautiful,” Jeff recalls.  “Her embrace felt so much warmer than a keyboard!”

The young couple felt a little anxious at first but their nerves settled down as their conversation took off.  Jeff and his sweetheart would dance for hours at a local club, until they were the last people on the dance-floor.  Later that night, their first kiss came in the back of the cab on their way home.

Jeff would spend seven weeks with Kalama’s family.  The couple toured the area to see Africa’s wildlife in its natural habitat and visit the world-famous Victoria Falls.  Along the way, they fell madly in love.  By the time Jeff headed home, he was a married man.  Yes, it’s true—Jeff and Kalama got hitched!

Sadly, difficulties with Kalama’s immigration are keeping the couple apart for now.  But Jeff and Kalama are making plans to reunite in Africa.  In fact, they hope to visit impoverished villages in Zambia, offering children entertainment, inspiration and gifts.

“Kalama’s smile, heart and love are greater than I ever could have imagined,” Jeff says.  Something tells us that no government can keep this couple apart for long.

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  1.   60for30 says:
    Posted: 23 Oct

    A government wouldn't keep them apart. Government seems to like people like them.

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  2.   James73049 says:
    Posted: 02 Sep

    They are another reason why God emphasizes love. Obviously, love generated even more blessings for others.

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  3.   ismine24 says:
    Posted: 26 Aug

    Is such a touching story about love

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  4.   Nanaahh says:
    Posted: 19 Aug

    Aww Lord where is my version of this jeff. Btw Congratulations love birds ❤️ Im super jealous nd happy for u lool

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  5.   AddisBella says:
    Posted: 15 Aug

    That is so unfair why can't they be together maybe they could apply from a nother country like Zimbabwe if they visa officers in Zambia Embassy are not helpful

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  6.   Flozyflow says:
    Posted: 14 Aug

    Weldone guys n congrats

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  7.   Excellent256 says:
    Posted: 14 Aug

    God bless you both.

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  8.   Maliccia says:
    Posted: 25 May

    Congratulations to both.

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  9.   Aroff says:
    Posted: 23 May

    I also need female for love n sex

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  10.   Shawar says:
    Posted: 16 Apr

    When it comes to love nothing is impossible

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  11.   alice26 says:
    Posted: 15 Mar

    Such an inspiring story...indeed love has no boundaries

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  12.   jimmy701 says:
    Posted: 13 Mar

    I want to know what Jeff and Kalama did because I found the most BEAUTIFUL and WONDERFUL WOMAN ON THIS SITE also and SHE Lives in AFRICA too and we have planed to be married also. And she loves me so much as I do her what did they do to make the Government let her leave I NEED TO KNOW so we can do the same thing ! If I have to hide her in my lunch box. To get her out ! or my pocket she coming home with me !

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  13.   Melo2012 says:
    Posted: 05 Mar

    I am waiting for my king and no one will stop us.

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  14.   Melo2012 says:
    Posted: 05 Mar

    Love is a powerful thing that God created no man ,no Government, no culture, no religion, no race and not even your parent can stand between you and your loving partner. That is love.

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  15.   madhmati says:
    Posted: 02 Mar

    I am Babu from vadodara in India

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  16.   peculi says:
    Posted: 06 Feb

    you can'teet a Zambian woman and not fall in love with her. we were created like that

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  17.   gaz123a says:
    Posted: 01 Feb

    i am completly discusted in our goverment if 2 people are happy they should be together

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  18.   Ali217 says:
    Posted: 28 Jan

    Great

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  19.   Jenneluv says:
    Posted: 04 Jan

    Thanks be to God I pary that their heart desires will be granted and no government Will cease disovle what God mighty has put together

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  20.   Kellinah313 says:
    Posted: 01 Dec 17

    No one says no when God says yes! It shall be done.as I'm also waiting patiently to meet the love of my life.Love is all I need.

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    • shalzy says:
      Posted: 04 Jan

      You says true when God says yes when every became yes.i love your concept

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  21.   Ajobaba says:
    Posted: 28 Oct 17

    I wish them all the best

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  22.   Eno123 says:
    Posted: 16 Oct 17

    Love is a beautiful thing

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  23.   Asmelrda says:
    Posted: 14 Oct 17

    Wonderful story thought..mine too on his♥♥♥♥

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  24.   Malisali says:
    Posted: 14 Oct 17

    The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched.They must be felt with the heart.

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  25.   Chardonnay23 says:
    Posted: 12 Oct 17

    Beautiful love story, distance wants to seem like a barrier but I'm still hoping. This story has given me much hope and confidence .the man of my dreams is closer than I think

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  26.   ringoone says:
    Posted: 10 Oct 17

    I am at the very beggining of a similar relationship with a beautiful women from Nigeria. I wish ALL people that are falling in love with someone far away, the best of luck and to day that no one can keep us apart. I love you Princess!

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  27.   Bb4545 says:
    Posted: 09 Oct 17

    Aaww lovely story.. Wishing you a happy marriage.

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  28.   Evaindo32 says:
    Posted: 30 Sep 17

    Wow

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  29.   bestkisses says:
    Posted: 15 Sep 17

    So real I see. Congratulations.

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  30.   Natty84 says:
    Posted: 11 Sep 17

    Um so happy for them..I also met someone in here a few weeks after joining this site juss hope everything will go well good site ever

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  31.   Hobbihobbies says:
    Posted: 26 Jul 17

    I wish them success all the time.

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  32.   brillbless says:
    Posted: 19 Jul 17

    I wish u the best let u r companionship be based on 1st corithians 13 and I ask my self what are the tricks used for someone to live others and focus to one person and forsake others the ones in success stories should help me

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  33.   Dkmd says:
    Posted: 14 Jul 17

    Wow amazing story

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  34.   algorithm says:
    Posted: 04 Jul 17

    i wish them the best life has got to offer. I pray i meet my better half someday

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  35.   Augs says:
    Posted: 02 Jul 17

    Good luck to the couple,sending positive energy to them!

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  36.   Ho75 says:
    Posted: 20 Jun 17

    Wonderful

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  37.   Kemmy08 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 17

    Congrats to the couple, love isn't love until you give it away.

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  38.   INEEDTHATMAN says:
    Posted: 01 Jun 17

    I thank God that did it for them, the same God who did for them will also join me and some one together one day, all hope are not lost but full with expectation.

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  39.   kipepeo1979 says:
    Posted: 30 May 17

    They must fait for they love never give up

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  40.   rosiewater says:
    Posted: 24 May 17

    i'm so happy for u guys.:)

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  41.   Oliso says:
    Posted: 17 May 17

    I'm happy for them! But it's so sad if you are married to a European man and you are denied visa to go to Europe to join your husband , really annoying , I think they would tell their white men not to marry Africans. I'm also a victim

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  42.   Berre says:
    Posted: 05 May 17

    Vongs I can't wait to find my meetup to overcome the lonelyness

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  43.   AnointedSon says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 17

    Interesting! You got to be sure God is in it. A Tobago man left for a Trini gyul, nobody knows where he is today. Listen to inner witness and be bold and brave to try new fronts but be sure God is in it.

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  44.   Nukile says:
    Posted: 22 Apr 17

    When God says yes no one can says no and when He opened the door for you no one can closed it ameeen.

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  45.   Shonefraue39 says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 17

    Ladies I was almost shading tears hearing this story . It's quite touchy and sweet the same time. I have a date next month of May . He will be visiting me from USA to Germany. We are crossing our fingers . Need your prayers guy ....

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    • INEEDTHATMAN says:
      Posted: 01 Jun 17

      Don't worrie, Almighty God who started it will perfect it for you guys, just believe and be well focus, and you will dances in the open for Joy, Read the Book of Genesis in BlBLE : 1 - 18 - 23 -24, Read it with understanding and believe it is done, God blessed both of you and may God words be accomplished in ur life's In Jesus Name Amen.

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  46.   Tidaps says:
    Posted: 04 Apr 17

    Wow!!!! beautiful story . Mine is on the way !!!!!!

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  47.   Maya2017 says:
    Posted: 04 Apr 17

    what God has put together,no man can put asunder.Let the govt do the couple 's wish and let their dream come true.Bravo guys !

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  48.   EmmeGem says:
    Posted: 01 Apr 17

    If only I could have the same someday

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  49.   lalapantrix says:
    Posted: 24 Mar 17

    Waiting for the one who will fulfil my lonely heart

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  50.   lalapantrix says:
    Posted: 24 Mar 17

    A

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