The government can't keep them apart
Jeff never had trouble meeting people, given his gregarious nature and his line of work—he’s a snowboard instructor, drummer, and D.J. whose handle is “DJake.” But he’d found he was most compatible with black women and he wasn’t meeting many of them in his area. What’s more, Jeff was very eager to meet his match and knew that hoping for the occasional chance meeting might keep him waiting for a long time.
“I wanted someone to fill my lonely heart, and yesterday,” Jeff says. So he decided to try our site. “Within the first month, I was talking to so many ladies that I quit searching to meet new ones,” he marvels. “Several of them are now some of my best friends. I’ve been teaching one of the girls’ daughters how to do magic tricks!”
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Kalama was getting plenty of attention of her own, but she had specific ideas about the kind of man she was looking for. When she found Jeff’s profile, it struck her as a bit long, but fun and genuine. She liked that Jeff knew what he wanted. His profile declared he was “Ready for Love.” Their personalities seemed compatible, and so did their relationship goals—both wanted to start a family, sooner rather than later.
There was just one wrinkle to iron out—Jeff was in Ohio and Kalama was in Africa! Undeterred, they started talking on Skype. This was enough for Jeff to learn to love Kalama’s laugh, her beautiful smile, and her witty sense of humor.
Jeff decided to go to Africa for a visit to see if their connection would work in real life. The pair met in person for the first time when Jeff got off the plane in Zambia. “When I finally met her, she was the same person as on Skype, but so beautiful,” Jeff recalls. “Her embrace felt so much warmer than a keyboard!”
The young couple felt a little anxious at first but their nerves settled down as their conversation took off. Jeff and his sweetheart would dance for hours at a local club, until they were the last people on the dance-floor. Later that night, their first kiss came in the back of the cab on their way home.
Jeff would spend seven weeks with Kalama’s family. The couple toured the area to see Africa’s wildlife in its natural habitat and visit the world-famous Victoria Falls. Along the way, they fell madly in love. By the time Jeff headed home, he was a married man. Yes, it’s true—Jeff and Kalama got hitched!
Sadly, difficulties with Kalama’s immigration are keeping the couple apart for now. But Jeff and Kalama are making plans to reunite in Africa. In fact, they hope to visit impoverished villages in Zambia, offering children entertainment, inspiration and gifts.
“Kalama’s smile, heart and love are greater than I ever could have imagined,” Jeff says. Something tells us that no government can keep this couple apart for long.
340 responses to "The government can't keep them apart"
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Manidy790 says:Posted: 27 Sep 20What a beautiful love story, wishing you all the best..
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Fizolozo says:Posted: 04 Oct 19Wish I could find someone out here to love and care for
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ladygie says:Posted: 02 Oct 19
congratulations to all .I wish all the luck.....
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Sweetblak says:Posted: 19 Sep 19You guys have my blessings .now hope someone fill my lonely spot
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Ruth116 says:Posted: 16 Apr 21
I hear you, girlfriend! There are some fellas out there for us. All we can do is Trust God to send them to us, give us patience in the meantime.
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Mackeens says:Posted: 08 Aug 19When will lady lucky strike? Hopefully one day. Congratulations Jeff and Kalama
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Besibella says:Posted: 06 Aug 19Happy for you guys. It's a matter of time and submission of required documents. I believe neither of Jeff's nor Kalama's government can stop them from being together. Wish them the best.
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OXYGEN99 says:Posted: 22 Jun 19Congratulations guys, I hope to find one here too
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Nawali says:Posted: 04 Jun 19
Wow that's lovely, am happy for you guys, that's so sweet, love conquer all things. Am waiting for mine as well. I know my time is coming soon . God bless you.
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Siraj88 says:Posted: 11 May 19Sometimes. These things dont work out. I had married a woman from Nigeria here in America on another site. Married to for a year. Came home one day and moved out of the apartment with everything and left me with a broken heart and empty apartment and US citizenship. Relationships like this can work however they are risky. Personally they need to be a US citizen. I would not recommend from my experience marrying someone who is not a US citizen. Its risky. However not every story turns out good.
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MzwRight124 says:Posted: 08 May 19
Wishing this couple the best and know God always has the Final Answer
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shuga555 says:Posted: 06 May 19The government should alone them be for God sake , i pray my dream man will locate me too
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Nattieboo_1 says:Posted: 11 Mar 19
This is a Beautiful story. I met a man from Nigeria, but I was afraid to visit his country. He was incredibly sweet and I had the same fear would happen to me that this Beautiful couple is going through right now. Thank you for sharing.
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Christina201 says:Posted: 19 Feb 19Wawoo, this is amazing really story to tell and for sure I have gained confidence. And I also strongly believe my Adam is soon locating me.
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Catra says:Posted: 11 Feb 19Wow!my country lady kalama,this is amazing .am Rilly encouraged and to Jeff indeed he is a great man who knows were he stand.mine aswell will come to locate me in zambia
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60for30 says:Posted: 23 Oct 18A government wouldn't keep them apart. Government seems to like people like them.
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James73049 says:Posted: 02 Sep 18They are another reason why God emphasizes love. Obviously, love generated even more blessings for others.
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Nanaahh says:Posted: 19 Aug 18Aww Lord where is my version of this jeff. Btw Congratulations love birds ❤️ Im super jealous nd happy for u lool
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AddisBella says:Posted: 15 Aug 18That is so unfair why can't they be together maybe they could apply from a nother country like Zimbabwe if they visa officers in Zambia Embassy are not helpful
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alice26 says:Posted: 15 Mar 18
Such an inspiring story...indeed love has no boundaries
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jimmy701 says:Posted: 13 Mar 18
I want to know what Jeff and Kalama did because I found the most BEAUTIFUL and WONDERFUL WOMAN ON THIS SITE also and SHE Lives in AFRICA too and we have planed to be married also. And she loves me so much as I do her what did they do to make the Government let her leave I NEED TO KNOW so we can do the same thing ! If I have to hide her in my lunch box. To get her out ! or my pocket she coming home with me !
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Ruth116 says:Posted: 17 Apr 21
What part of Africa does your lady friend live in? Africa is a continent consisting of 57 countries, just like North America is a continent consisting of three countries, Mexico, U.S.A. and Canada respectively. I'll be praying that you'll be reunited with her and able to begin your married life.
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Melo2012 says:Posted: 05 Mar 18
I am waiting for my king and no one will stop us.
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Melo2012 says:Posted: 05 Mar 18
Love is a powerful thing that God created no man ,no Government, no culture, no religion, no race and not even your parent can stand between you and your loving partner. That is love.
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peculi says:Posted: 06 Feb 18you can'teet a Zambian woman and not fall in love with her. we were created like that
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GAbdulHameed says:Posted: 01 Aug 18Hi my dear Peculi i like you, are you married.contact me
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gaz123a says:Posted: 01 Feb 18i am completly discusted in our goverment if 2 people are happy they should be together
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Jenneluv says:Posted: 04 Jan 18Thanks be to God I pary that their heart desires will be granted and no government Will cease disovle what God mighty has put together
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Kellinah313 says:Posted: 01 Dec 17
No one says no when God says yes! It shall be done.as I'm also waiting patiently to meet the love of my life.Love is all I need.
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shalzy says:Posted: 04 Jan 18You says true when God says yes when every became yes.i love your concept
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Eno123 says:Posted: 16 Oct 17Love is a beautiful thing
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Malisali says:Posted: 14 Oct 17
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched.They must be felt with the heart.
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Chardonnay23 says:Posted: 13 Oct 17Beautiful love story, distance wants to seem like a barrier but I'm still hoping. This story has given me much hope and confidence .the man of my dreams is closer than I think
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ringoone says:Posted: 10 Oct 17
I am at the very beggining of a similar relationship with a beautiful women from Nigeria. I wish ALL people that are falling in love with someone far away, the best of luck and to day that no one can keep us apart. I love you Princess!
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Bb4545 says:Posted: 09 Oct 17
Aaww lovely story.. Wishing you a happy marriage.
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Natty84 says:Posted: 11 Sep 17Um so happy for them..I also met someone in here a few weeks after joining this site juss hope everything will go well good site ever
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brillbless says:Posted: 19 Jul 17
I wish u the best let u r companionship be based on 1st corithians 13 and I ask my self what are the tricks used for someone to live others and focus to one person and forsake others the ones in success stories should help me
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