Sexy Swag

Posted by Leticia, 30 Jun

“QueenyT” and “SaltLife73” may not sound like a match made in heaven, but these two usernames on our site were associated with what is now a happy couple. Takia (“QueenyT”) signed up with zero experience in the online dating sphere. “I was not confident,” she says point blank. “But I wanted to find someone special.”

For Jason (“SaltLife73”), the draw was the variety that singles can find on the internet. “The options to meet plenty of people” convinced him to join his first online dating site – this very one, in fact. But he wasn’t confident either.

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Apparently they signed up around the same time and six months later, Takia noticed Jason’s profile. “He looked handsome and kind,” she explains. So she sent him a Flirt. Scanning Takia’s profile, Jason liked what he saw. “She seemed very genuine,” he says now.

Before long they felt they’d done enough chatting to take the next step. “We’d talked for a while,” notes Takia. So it was time to plan their first date… “There was an opportune time to meet, so we met at a Thai restaurant,” Jason recalls.

When they saw each other for the first time, Jason remembers thinking, “She’s real! And she looks even better than her pics!” Takia felt an instant attraction, herself. “I thought he was so cute,” she admits. “I immediately gravitated towards him!” Apparently his profile didn’t capture “his sexy swag.”

Takia says that the most surprising thing about the date was “How comfortable I felt around him. This feels natural, just being around him.” With an impulsive act of affection, Jason even surprised himself. “That I snuck a kiss in” is his vote for biggest surprise of the night. “I didn’t even know I was about to do it!”

The date went so well that when asked how certain he was they’d go out again, Jason quips, “Is there a number to put down that’s better than 100%? I went home and couldn’t stop thinking about her.” The feeling was mutual. “He is everything I ever wanted in a man, lover, friend and soulmate,” declares Takia. “I woke up the next day after our first date and it came to me: this relationship will be special.”  Now that they’re together, Jason reflects on what makes their connection hum. “She does it for me,” he says, calling the match “out of the ballpark, exactly what I like.” Even their physical fit is like a glove. Jason says he loves “how when Takia hugs me, she fits right into my chest. It just feels really good.”

Has the newly minted couple faced any obstacles? “So far so good,” observes Takia. “We haven’t had any yet,” Jason agrees, “but I’m sure when they do cross our path we will be able to conquer them.”

Finding love has been a game-changer for Takia. “It has given me a sense of peace,” she says. Jason feels rejuvenated by their relationship, calling it “a breath of fresh air” and noting, “It made me feel like trying again.”

Asked what they might advise singles to do on sites like this one, Takia and Jason have suggestions. “Be realistic and truthful about yourself and what you want,” says the lady. “Be honest, and be patient,” says her man.

Patience can pay off in this game!

25 responses to "Sexy Swag"

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  1.   Rennie97 says:
    Posted: 28 Jan 22

    Awwwww an inspiration they are and beautiful together,,, can't wait to meet my real partner forever.

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  2.   Soladebb says:
    Posted: 20 Jan 22

    That's a wonderful story. I have not had any luck, never do. But it's still nice to hear about others that have had luck

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  3.   Ijeybeka says:
    Posted: 18 Jan 22

    Nice

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  4.   Jayhebrewx says:
    Posted: 30 Apr 21

    Can we play music on here as a greeting

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  5.   Apethe says:
    Posted: 05 Mar 21

    Am still waiting and pràying to meet my prince charming.

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    • Tumuemmy says:
      Posted: 18 Apr 21

      Could I be the one to be called by the name"prince! Iam excited! From Uganda.

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  6. Posted: 04 Mar 21

    I'm hopeful

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  7.   jamgirl207 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 21

    Am still hopeful. Congrats to you both

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  8.   Fayeh says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 21

    Wow! This is inspiring

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  9.   Nawali says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 21

    Sexy swag wow that was fanatic happy fir you guys

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  10.   Baby367 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 21

    Real love exist when you find the rightful lover

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  11.   2929ryby says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 21

    This is wow wish I could find some one . Days are numbered I believe I will meet my dream man. If others have found I shall find. It really works. Thumbs up to u guys who have found their soulmates.

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  12.   Kok0 says:
    Posted: 14 Nov 20

    True love exist when you find aright partner, guys love your selves as waiting my day to.

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  13.   Mukisa1 says:
    Posted: 13 Nov 20

    I am so happy for those who has achieved their goals from here . and I hope one day it will be me .

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  14.   JessyAli says:
    Posted: 10 Nov 20

    Beauty

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  15.   Ghanason21 says:
    Posted: 10 Nov 20

    Nice and sexy but no black guy with white lady.....why

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  16. Posted: 10 Nov 20

    I would like to know if it works with people who live far from each other or within the same city I have tried many times, trying to communicate with a girl on the site but NOTHING ... I became a member, I write them messages but not even a " HELLO "I would like to know what is the tactic used so that you can respond to messages ... anyway

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    • Fragolina198 says:
      Posted: 19 Jan 22

      I'M sorry that you are feeling ignored,with the right person it will be different

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  17. Posted: 20 Jul 20

    Beautiful

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  18. Posted: 03 Jul 20

    mtd-Have you thought that maybe the success stories seem to be about White men/Black women because they are the ones that are actually getting together because they want stable relationships and not just a hook up? BW/WM have the longest lasting marriages and lowest divorce rates.

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  19.   mtd says:
    Posted: 02 Jul 20

    Yawn, yawn, snore, snore. I guess black men should leave this site. The only "success" stories seem to be white men/black women. At least those are the only ones you care to post.

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    • aujus says:
      Posted: 12 Jul 20

      "Yawn, yawn, snore, snore" means either bored or sleepy, right? So either take a nap or find a hobby. Oh and btw at the time of writing this, under "More Inspirational Articles" there are five photo block links to other articles -- three of the five feature a black man -- your evidence is as anecdotal as mine :)

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  20.   Nsidem says:
    Posted: 02 Jul 20

    May I Have This Sort Of Testimonial

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